D8 just told me that she and her brother have been sleeping in the room across the hall the last 2 nights so they can "get used to it" while their father and GF sleep in his bed. Still don't like the situation, obviously, but at least that is a step in the right direction thanks to my complaints.
Looked at my 401 paperwork yesterday and see that since he left 10/07 my money has dropped significantly so that if he gets half of the figure when he left I will lose nearly all of it. That can't be right. I must be able to use the figure when we settle instead, since that is all that is in there, I can't recreate the funds lost because of the economy. If he was home he would only get the lower figure to share. I'll have to talk to someone.
Won't see him again until Sunday when he gets them. Hoping to not think of things until then.
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08
