No, I am not a master at it but you just start out praying and asking God to guide you and to help you accomplish these things. It does not happen overnight and it took me a few years to get to that point.

You just have to be patient, ask, and put it into practice.

And I would suggest reading the charlyne cares daily articles which would probably be a big help to you.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
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