1. What did I do to survive? Read, read, read some more, DB books and others, THIS BOARD, anything I could but after that, put down the books and GAL, met new people, but also surrounded myself w/ friends and family and wasn't afraid to ask for hlep
2. What mistakes did I make? oh gosh lol how much time do i have? begging, pleading , appearing needy. uggh not going dark and just making the same mistakes over and over, till i got it.
3. What was my best victory. Starting my very own life! not as Mrs. A or the ex Mrs. A but Karen S! Going back to work, making new friends, friends that are part of my new life, just finding me again.
4. What was my worst loss? Was and still is in some ways, the loss of family for my son, we were a small family just 3 of us, so when one leaves, that's a big gap! Knowing he wont have the same life as ex and I had, and things will be different for him as he starts his own life.
5. Am I happier now and why? Oh yes! because I made sure I would be happy, ex or not- I do love things about my life now much better, I am ore independent, easy going, appreciate things I didn't before, Could I of done this w/ ex? yes, but I had to do it without him and I am happy and very lucky!
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
