I just read a quote from a post that made me feel good. I have been wondering sometimes if by holding out hope for R I was really setting myself up and staying in denial. Then I read:

As longer as I am hurting because the M might be ending, I might as well keep fighting until it is truly over. Then, at least, I can say that I did everything I could to save us.

Wish I had kept the link to the original thread, but this is exactly how I feel as well. Just wanted to share that thought with everyone.


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1599046&page=0&fpart=1