My H was a control freak too! And he got really angry b/c I didn't go along with what he wanted & I ended up getting the house & alimony & he paid all L's fees.
He even cussed me out one night b/c it wasn't going his way. He had never used language like that around me nor ever talk to me like that. (I got it on tape & turned if over to L but we didn't have to use it, thank goodness!)
