"Detaching/going dark may be good for now. I think you need to step back for a moment and realize that for now, your W has been abducted by aliens and the person you are speaking to is from another planet.
The only chance of seeing your W again is to not piss off the aliens."
LOL!!!!! That's brilliant I love that.
The confrontation is a semi 180, i'm still not too sure if i should do it or not, she said that I didn't talk to her about how I felt, and that I should have. Also that I need to regardless of if it sounds mean or not. so maybe i should, but i'll try and tone it down a bit. She told me that she used me as an excuse. The only reason she told me that is because I said I might not be coming. But if I tell her not to do it again, then maybe she wont. I'm not trying to hurt her, but I'm not going to let her use me for things and hope i don't find out. To be honest, it hurt more than a lot of other things that have happened. I think i'm starting to learn, coz' I have sat on this for a couple of days.
If I still feel like I need to say something after the weekend, then I will, but i'll leave it for now.
You really are an inspration sometimes, I'm looking for more books and thing, just need the money to buy them and then it will all be good (not really, but better hopefully )
Give me an update on your full situation sometime, if you can. It's helping me lots to say my things, and the things that have happened with you give some good perspective, and to be honest, I'd like to help you for a change
t7-years m3-years Me:22 W:27 Wifes kids (love them like my own) D-10 D-7 Our Kids S-3
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