I have to agree with ncnative. I probably wouldn't piss her off. Save your venting for here - cuz we all understand. Actions speak louder than words - even if it doesn't always seem that way. And as Coach says Action not Reaction! (I'll have to ask him if that really his own saying). Next time she plans something around you - could you just politely decline?? (I know your S b'day is not an option). Stay cool - don't jump the gun!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)