Well, it happened. I signed the papers today at 11:30am. When I dropped off Ross at Carrie's house she sent him up to the apartment and she got in my car. I will try and quote but my memory is not the best:
C- WTF is wrong with you? Me- Ummm nothing that I know of. C- You filed a motion to stop me from moving? Why the F did you do that? Me- I did not sign to prevent you from moving, you can move wherever you like. My petition clearly states that I want primary custodial rights for Ross so you cannot enroll him in school in Mississippi. I also am concerned about the drive to school every morning. C- What is your problem I just want this over with. I would never enroll him in school down there. Don't you trust me?
Me- Are you kidding me? No I don't trust you, you have given me no reason to and so I will protect myself and our children. If you want this over then tell your lawyer to quit milking you for money and actually schedule the mediation instead of making me ludicrous offers of settlement. C- What do you want, how do we end this because I am sick of you. Me- Give me sole custody of Tawny, take half the debt, and primary custodial rights for Ross and we are good to go. C- No, I will not take half the debt. Me- ok, so schedule the mediator and they can decide.
It was craziness. I asked her why she took Ross to OM's house Monday night when we agreed not to introduce other people to him until the D was done. She said it was just dinner with a friend. I said a friend who you told our son you were dating. Which by the way you failed to tell him the truth.
She rambled on some more, at this point I was simply sick of listening. She is twisted and just doesn't get that this crap is of her own doing. She still thinks I am hanging on and merely out to get her. It's just pure insanity. I smiled throughout the conversation. Didn't lose my cool at all. She got out of the car angry as hell and slammed my door.
I figure blow up number two will come when she sees her new child support amount with me having Tawny full time. She already threatened to stop making her payment to my mom for a loan she gave us. I will take on that debt myself to save face with my family. I guess she is going to lash out at this point and do whatever she can to hurt me now.
Should be a hell of a ride coming up y'all.....Stay tuned......
I am sorry I haven't been posting much on other threads, I just am having a hard time being empathetic and offering up positive solutions and advice right now. I like to think I know when to keep my distance on here. I will be back to it soon, just need to get over these hurdles presently in my path.
And Bean, a special thank you for what you did, it meant a lot to me.
