Lrt VI midlife criis gotta be patient

[craig54]

Imageer,

you are spot on. That is why I have not had a r talk for over 9 months. I already knew the answer to the question. She, like your wife is not ready to deal with herself.No counsling, no nothing, I have asked her about counseling many months ago, It has to be when she is ready and that is just the way it is.

I do compliment her , tell her how beautiful she is, we laugh and have a good time together. I know in the mlc world, 12 months since the bomb, is not a long time. But she is working on the divorce papers and has hired a lawyer to help her finish them.So it is what it is. She has no desire to work on the house to get it ready to sell, because honestly that is the only way she will be able to afford a real place of her own.

I know she is sick and tired of living in the travel trailer. I dont blame her.she seems to only be able to want the divorce, but as I told someone earlier today, the divorce is the easy part. She has no idea how hard the rest of it will be.She has no stomach for that.
IKnow it is in the Lords hands. thanks imageer.