19 years ago I was recovering from a messy divorce, and was raising my two older children.One of the things that attracted my wife to me was how I dealt with my children.
yes we did go on many dates, sometimes with the kids but most of the time by ourselves. We have always gotten along very well. I have talked to her about the divorce and how that I do not want it.It fell on deaf ears, she is in a identity crisi. She is preminopausal, and recently lost over a 100lbs on weight watchers.She will not go out with me, no dates, only when we have the children with us.
Our 20th anniversary is the 10th of september and also her birthday. I plan on sending her flowers for her birthday, but I will be out of town on our anniversary. I do not want to be around here on our anniversary. It will be too painful.I am not angry, I am just very sad, because none of this is necessary.
I have treated her with respect and dignity over the last 9 months.She has treated me the same.It is in the Lord's hands.Only the Lord can save my marriage.I know I have no control. I accept that fact.I love her.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
