I have not posted to you before but have been reading along. I have a question for you about this family drama. My husbands family is a super toxic bunch but he does not see it that way and it has been a major area of conflict between us. Was there ever a time when you let it get between you and your husband? Or have you always been aware of their "ways"? My husband will defend his psycho family and make me out to be the bully in some cases and it drives me insane! I am just wondering if you had an awakening, so to speak, to their toxic behavior or if you always saw it but did not know what to do about it before now.
Kinda random but I'm hoping it can offer some insight into my sitch.
