Hello and thank you to all of you for your words of support and understanding today.
I think I know, now, that the "material things" are what he is most concerned about. I see that these are the only things left of our marriage that is important to him.
I will take all of this under advisement and do my best not to hurt him anymore in this manner. If that means I have to tiptoe, then the tips of my toe will grow calluses and get stronger.
He is still my only love.
I will continue to love him for now, and sleep on the "Hill where the Lord hides." Chuck Mangione
