H T2Live, I am a newbie also and we are all brought here by sorrow of our H. After 20 years my H wants a D. There was definitely problems of apathy in our marriage but now he refuses to work on the marriage and wants to move on. Yes, there is OW involved. Funny part is she works for him and we all work together at the same company. How frustrating for all. He denies this R because he could get fired. I went through the name calling, guilt etc. I found this website and bought 2 of the books and have Jody the telephone coach twice. I am really trying to change myself and outlook. Our D15 know there is something wrong and is getting upset. My heart goes out to her. He is looking for furnished apts and acting crazy. Yes this is a full mid-life crisis and it sounds like it was written for him. I will let you know how I progress.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
