Hi Craig,

I have FOUND you again. Have you had a chance to *update* your signature yet? One more thing... you never answered my questions. When was the last time you asked your wife if there was a change in heaven that you both could/would/should make this marriage work?

Have you tried any 180s with her when she is in front of you. Have you bought new clothes, changed your hairstyle, gone on a diet? Have you enhanced your personality, taken a course in photography?

Please, instead of telling me your interpretations of what you think your wife is thinking, tell me what she is doing? What are you doing -- in need descriptive circumstances? Are you going dark, have you ever done that? What is going on with you.

Please respond carefully.

Carefully yours,
poet