N_A, I think it is great that you were able to bring up the $ issues at counseling. He seems to have taken you a bit more seriously. Time will only tell.
I am so happy for you that your going on an anniversary trip. It will undoubtably be a great way for you two to relax and to bond. My H and I just got back from ours and it was great. It really helped me to feel like my H is starting to make more of a commitment since we dont live together yet.
