Everyone thinks cats are similar in nature but that couldn't be further from the truth. I have had stalkers (like yours) and cuddlers like Blu and every kind of other cat you could imagine - bold and agressive, shy and reclusive. They're just as different as you and I (oh, wait, you and I are a lot alike - LOL).
She might never be a great cuddler but you won't love her less. My other kitty, Tango, cuddled and snuggled when I first got her. Now she only has eyes for Ashley. I try to sneak in the occasional pet but when Ash comes in the door - she goes nuts - practically climbs up her for attention and cuddles. I call her traitor. That is why I got Blu. Cuz his mom told me he was a cuddle boy. Hadn't had a male kitten since I was 8 years old. But he is such a sweetie. And Tango loves him too - so it has worked out great. We're one big happy family. (And if you believe that with 2 alpha females in the house - I've got some land in Florida for sale ya know).
