My H was pretty much the same. More than happy to chit chat when not with OW; but when she was around he was very abrupt and darn right rude.

It is just so two faced.

I would not tolerate him talking to me one way when around her and another when he wasn’t so now I no longer accept phone calls or texts from him, nor do I send any.

We communicate fine enough through e-mail. (Even they are few and far between)

If he misses out on important information about our son that’s his problem.

Nutty


Be The Greener Grass.


Me 40
H 42
Son 11
Married 15 years.
Left May 2006 after gambling spree
I had EA August 2006
OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!)
I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.