Boy that is a really dumb question. Of course I mean it.
I won't take that personal.
The reason I am asking that, Phil, is that if one loves another personal unconditionally, and they follow Pauls' parroting of God's word, then we: * Love another regardless of how we are treated * Show those we love, kindness, even if we are treated unkind * We are not to compare with others the love we have * We appreciate the gift of love we feel for someone else without boasting or feeling superior * Love is pure, from God, and does not exist apart from God * Love for another can withstand the harshest circumstances and knows the truth, regardless of what is said or seen * Love will not perish
I am not saying how my wife must feel for me or how your wife feels for you or how you feel for your wife.
You said you love your wife unconditionally. I believe you. You don't have to answer me or anyone else but you should answer to yourself -- are you exhibiting this kind of love to your wife and in front of your children, friends, family, her family, your wife's friend and anyone else who knows you and your wife?
I am not changing scripture but sharing it as it is in His word.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God