Today is the first day of the rest of my life....

[Hope_11]

Thanks for whitelight. I really appreciate the advice and your view of things and I'm definitely going to check out that book.

I agree that I might come on a little strong, but B3 came on strong as well. He was so open and honest from day 1...he was a breath of fresh air after what I had been through with B2.

For example, he insisted on driving 60 miles to see me one week after we met because we wouldn't be able to see each other that weekend otherwise. We've been on 3 dates in one month and talk on the phone every couple of days....I don't think too many people would say that's too strong. B3, himself told me that he told the other girl that he was sort of dating when he met me that he couldn't see her anymore because he met someone else and he was really interested in seeing where that was going.

Also, this minor thing of me leaving the country in 3 weeks is getting in the way with the normal progression of a relationship. I signed on the dotted line for Switzerland before I even met him.

I'm probably just a fool. After everything I've been through, I still try to see the good in people and believe that there are good men in this world. The trouble is that I keep getting burned. I pride myself in not turning into a bitter, scorned woman after my X left me for another woman....if this keeps happening I'm afraid I might turn into a woman that I never wanted to be.

I'm going to take your advice Whitelight. I'm done calling him. I hope he calls me back, but if not, his loss. Either way, I'm moving at the end of the month and now, I'm sure glad I didn't back out of going because of him.