lovemyguy - I have not read all of your thread, but it does seem that your H is doing a better of GALing than you.
He has moved on and so do you... The part about Getting a Life is that is has a great outcome whether or not your H comes back.
And actually, the desire to move on is not all that terrible - it shows that you do not need another person to be there for you... you can make it on your own... That is more attractive than being lonely or clingy to your H.
Being able to move on may be the best way for your H to see you in a different light...
...Yeah I'm the one to talk... I myself struggle with it everyday. Not so much about the dreams that have been ripped apart, but more that I only get to see my daughter 3 days a week.
You are going through the emotional stages of separation - It is progress.
Me:40 / W:33 / D:3 T:7.5/M:4 D Day: 1/24/08 Legal Separated: 6/12/08 BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08 Suspect BF pre-dates D Day
