Phil...you are seperate from her the pressure of being one with someone is tremendous
Marriage is not becoming one with someone it is joining WITH someone
two complete people coming together to add to each other's lives
I know that feeling...like a part of you has been ripped away and there is a gaping open wound where soemthing used to be
the feeling that you are incomplete
We NEED to be a complete person on our own. Honestly...how can we add to someone's life if we are incomplete? If we look to them to make us complete then we are taking constantly and it tips the balance of our relationship.
Does that make sense?
You need to feel complete on your own your wife needs to be complete on her own
then there can be give and take instead of constant giving or taking
Your soul is yours Phil she can only kill it if you let her
No one can kill your soul without you giving them permission
be whole unto yourself Phil your soul belongs to you and God
