You know better so you won't find any 2x4's from me. One thing I have found over and over in my sitch is not to ask questions that I either already know the answer to or that I don't want to know the answers to.
I think your H wants you, but my vote is to back off and see if he initiates.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
