Originally Posted By: HOPEFULinCALI


Thank you. I am always interested in hearing the H's perspective. Men are such different creatures than women. I understand that his experience as a WAH is potentially different than my experience as a WAW. Do you think his pride has a lot to do with it?


Hopeful - I read your recent posting and my heart goes out to you. You must be really hurting with what your H is doing. I will tell you that pride does have something to do with it. The pride that he can command the attention of a younger women. It is likely to get very physical, and I am so sorry to say so. However you know your H the best and can determine how far it will go. I can tell you it will not last given the age gap. It may be just an ego thing playing out. Set boundaries and stay in your home.


Me: 38
W: 41
M: 17 yrs
3 kids
Bomb: 3/08 affair
Status: On Divorce track

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