Yes, she posted the story in different ways on her old site. In her weekly letters etc. and dicussed it on her videos. I don't know if that info is still up or not -- as the old site is being discontinued.
My take on it is -- that in no way, shape or form did Dan ever want to restore the marriage the 2nd time. He was "in love" with his old HS sweetheart and that was that.
I think the most that happened is that Dan was shocked -- poor baby -- that this time around -- Erin wasn't falling apart and pleading and begging him to come back. His ego took quite a bruising!
So when she chose not to stand in his way of leaving -- this really bothered him -- and to a degree he started to pursue her hoping to get her to start pursuing him again. PURE EGO. Not b/c he wanted to restore the marriage -- but only b/c his ego needed her to be desperate and begging him to come back.
From what I understand, Erin was just at peace this time and didn't feel desperate like the 1st time and just decided that whatever God's will was would unfold.
She did NOT refuse a restoration. She simply didn't actively seek one. There is a difference. And, Erin often discusses how she truly is at peace and is happier with God as her husband.
