Man what is wrong with these 20 yr old women!!! They have no respect for married people! Just wait until they are married. I truly believe in what goes around comes around.
How long was your H gone? When did he come back?
I have read Divorce Remedy if you don't have it get it and read it!! I have a few other books I have bought that I am going to read next but I definitely plan on reading DR again.
From what I have read, BabyGirl if he has come back and says he wants a R with you then he must cut off all communication with OW or else your R will not survive. He must prove to you that it is over and must start regaining your trust. Nothing should be hidden from you. He should be totally open with you about everything.
For me, I have a strong feeling that my H and OW are not going to last. Even though I know I should not snoop I still do on occasion and have seen emails that show she is insecure with their R. She keeps telling him that if he doesn't 'close doors' with me and the 1st woman he had an affair with that she is walkin because if there is no trust then there is no R. But I know he does not tell her everything. Its a R that is doomed.
I'm just trying to live day by day and focus on me and my D16. This is all that we can do at the moment.
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.
