when you go tit for tat it makes you look like a whiner
we have all had to do tough work we have all had to suck it up and go out of our comfort zone
on this board you get what you give
we all come here lost and tired and confused and looking for hope and a feeling of not being alone
you have insulted a great many people who are simply trying to point out some things that you may want to work on...that will help you feel more in control
please don't ask your kids if mommy has a boyfriend or even what mommy does when she is with them
concentrate on what you can do with them when you have them...your time is your time
when you put your kids int he middle it makes them split their loyalty between you both
kids don't have to chose bewtween you
and they see that she is getting a million tms from you or that their mom is angry when she talks to you or that she yells
don't give her fuel for her fire
and
i never talk from my bellybutton...the sound is too muffled
