I don't see it that way at all. Virginia has displayed adequate concern for respect and safety of everyone.
It just so happens I have the attention of the boss. I'm sure Michelle is reading too. I'm sure she could write a book about my sitch. I'll even co-author, we can make a movie.
I wouldn't even be surpised if Michelle writes advice under a pseudoname. If she is, then I probally lashed out at her too.
There are a few people here that have given me excellent advice. Others seem to just want to 2x4 me. Well that doesn't work with me. This is not an AA society.