I hope that you two have a wonderfull time in Hawaii!!!
Maybe it would have been a good idea that you slept in the bed anyway but, that is a personal choice that only you can make.
Addiction is a horrible thing to overcome and she has to be really proactive in wanting to quit before anything will work. Me Im'e addicted to munching on food (thus gaining weight back) to make my hurt lessen but I realize that it is only temporary and that it needs to stop. Right now easier said than done though. Only I can decide to stop the cycle.
Have fun CL!!!!!!
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez