Morning (((Grant))) sorry you are having such a rough day!

I just went through the anniversary in July. I knew I wanted to do something to acknowledge the day, but its not like you can tell your S "Happy Anniversary" when, lets face it, its not.

I sent him an email. My H is from Germany, so I sent it in German that just said I am thinking of you today, hope you have a good day.

I never got a response, never was acknowledged, but I know that I didn't push the issue, said something nice, and created a memory for him of that day that he will not likely forget.

My suggestion, if you feel the need to acknowledge the day, then fine, but don't go over the top. Maybe something of the same, a quick email stating you are thinking of your W, and hopes she has a good day.

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..