Looking for some more patience!

[kissak]

Thanks guys...I agree. I think he should turn off his phone if he doesnt want to be interupted by "me". I sware if it were someone else it wouldnt matter. He is trying to "win" her back so any contact from me makes her wonder. I did text him last night and asked him not to text me anymore.

But, he did. This morning I got a "good morning". I didnt answer. Then he called the kids. I spoke with him briefly because he asked to. But I kept it short and to the point about the kids only. He asked if I had gotten his text. I said no because at that point I hadnt checked my phone. H texted again and forwarded me the text I sent him and said he hoped I didnt mean it. Then, oh then he pulled what he always pulls....trying to manipulate me into talking to him! UGH! I knew it too. He texted and wanted to know why I was avoiding him, then texted to ask me to answer phone he had some ?s to ask me! That gets me everytime. He knows It. So, I just said "whats your ?". He wanted to know if I had gotten a call from the credit union about something and if I needed help getting the yard ready for the hurricane tomorrow....I just said I needed help flipping the trampoline and thats all.

My daughter had her first therapy today. Very interesting. The doc is going to try hypnotism. Sounds very interesting to me. Of course she is afraid so the doc said he would do me first just to show her its harmless....great! She probably have me bark like a dog or something...her face lit up!

My H texted me to see if we were done and I said yes so he called me and I told him what the doc said. Then he made the comment that he wanted to call me and ask about it since I werent talking to him this morning.

He is so afraid to lose me as a friend (by his terms), that he sorta panics if I get mad and dont talk to him.

This is hard with kids and its hard not to text sometimes because there are things that need to be said. I think from now on I will call him when I have a ? and like you said, he dont have to answer, I will just leave a message if its important.

YOu know BFM, he knows I care about him. I have a hard time pretending that I dont sometimes.