I think they are just trying to say they are sorry. Your wife is messing things up and they can see her confusion and how it has effected both of you.
The question you need to ask yourself...If she came back and was remorseful, asked for forgiveness and another chance would you do it? Is that what you are hoping for? What changes would have to be made and do you think those changes are possible? Or are you truley done for now?
These are questions going through my mind. I don't see them happening for me, at least not right now and I know that I don't want him to come back for money issues, but maybe in my case it is forcing reality a little faster and stronger than he would have liked.
You get to pick the movie. We are eagerly awaiting your choice.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory