I really hate this place. I should have never started posting here because all it does is add to the drama.

Even this morning. I texted her. Thanks you left shoe prints all on the kitchen floor into the great room. Kids call me on the drive to school.

The kids call. They are tired, but I wish them a good day and tell them I love them.

Then I get stupid, I asked to speak with Mommy.

She gets on the phone. I said Thanks for getting shoe prints everywhere.

Oh, how did I do that. I said well you came into the house with your shoes on from your ice cream store. Now it's a mess.

She said she was sorry.

I said yeah, well if I would have done that to you, you would have went to town on me. Are you going to come and mop it?

She hangs up on me.

I text: some friend you are.

I text: Treat other the way you want to be treated

I text: Why are you so mean to me?

I text: I have enough problems, and you constantly five me a hard time. You did it through the whole relationship. I'm sorry. I am really sorry. I feel sorry for you.

I text: I am sorry you lost the babies. I tried to make you happy.

I text: You gave me a hard time about every thing, and you are still doing it.

I text: Why?

I text: Would you please answer the question?

Nothing, she just wants to act like an insolent, vexatious, and quarrelsome woman.

Now nobody better say a word to me. Because I do not need the stress.

I already know some idiot is going to bash me for treat others the way you want to be treated comment, so don't even go there.

And the dynamics about the kids the advice given about the kids staying with me on nights she works. Isn't going to work. All she is going to do is cause a big scene and get the children all upset.

Yes, I know I had to go tit for tat with her about the shoe prints. Because I know she would have went to town on me. If I would have let it go then she would think nothing of it.

What I'm saying is whatever is good for the goose is never good for the gander with her.

She can walk into our house with her shoes on, but I can't even walk on her foyer rug. I got dirt on it a couple months ago. Now she can just waltz in the house with her nasty work shoes on and create a giant mess.

It was like that with everything. She gives me a hard time about everything, and when I call her on her faults I'm the a$$hole.

Insolent, vexatious, and quarrelsome. WHY?

Why do I want her back? Because I love her? I always did? It didn't matter to me how she acted, what she said.

But then I would get to the point when I just could not take it anymore.

I do need peace in my life, but I just do not see it.

Yes your right. When she hung up on me I should have just let it go. Not texted. Like I was looking for an excuse to talk to my wife. Yes, your right, because I yearn to hear her voice.

I should have not told my children to put their mother on. For one it was a bad time. She was flustered trying to get them to school. Etc... Bad timing. I should have been just happy with the fact that she said she was sorry.

YEARN!

Imageer, I'm sick of the high fiving and supporting of others peoples post. Keep your comments about what others say to yourself.

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Then why would you want to be with a person who treats you this way?


Because when you are verbally abused for 13 years by the person you love, you are used to it. It is normal, and you know what. Someone already said. They all act that way.

Bighands, go away you were not helpful. I'm only angry now because the situation is so crazy. I have no control. I can't control it, and I'm a person about cosmic order and logic.