The problem is that what we agreed to a month ago was done after hours of arguing about it. We finally came to agreement on my proposal with a few changes. After he saw it in writing again, he flipped and said no way.. We were so close to a final settlement and now he's suddenly willing to take me to court and spend thousands of dollars on a different attorney in order to get his way on parenting time and also not have to pay child support (which I waived orginally anyway). He's a very emotional decision-maker so I think that's why he flip-flops so much.
I'm certain I could end up better financially if I pushed it. But, that has never been what is important to me. It's stability for D4 that I'm worried about.
I am so scared right now that I will have to give up my baby... This is so ridiculous... The sad thing is that having an affair probably won't be a big decider on who gets more time with D4!
