I have some more questions for any of the WAS. I have been reading your sitchs and some of you have been separated for months and in some cases a year or more. My WAW started saying she needs out of the R/M. During the first two bomb shells (within 3 weeks) she implied that she eventally wants a D. But she has not said anything about wanting or starting to work on the big D since and that has been 3 months ago. Please understand Please understand I mean no disrespect to you or your sitch with these questions.I am just trying to understand.
If your sitch was so bad that you felt you had to leave the relationship: Why haven't you taken steps to start the D? If you were so sure the the R was so bad that it caused you to leave, why didn't you go head finish what you started? Why are you dragging things out? Is it because you are not as sure about now about ending the R/M?
