Your H thrives on drama. He wants you to blow a gasket because it will show you still care about him. He wants you to go off the handle and scream and shout.
He's like a little kid trying to get attention in any way he can even if it's bad attention.
Don't take his bait.
BFM
There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections
