Second, wouldn't it make more sense to change it to "it's complicated" or "separated" or even "divorced"?
Third, don't bother trying to hide it. She'll figure it out. And she'll feel how she'll feel. IMHO, tell her yourself. Don't let her find out from the internet or a friend, that'll only make it worse.
My status was " " ..i didn't show it... she changed hers to single so i figured it's no big deal. I am going to tell her about it when she gets back anyways. I do wants to keep things reasonable. Thanks for being that voice Michelle
Plus she allready knows and according to her cousin is fine with it, she was just mad because she wanted to get the upper hand on me and get "moved on" first..
PS Seperated or divorced isn't an option for some odd reason. weird