w just sent me a long email about vacation time w/ the kids and the upcoming school calendar. she wants to figure it out without the lawyers. the dates go all the way through next spring. our D would be final in December, so I hate this email she sent me.
here's my proposed response. get the 2x4's ready.
'Id love to eliminate the L's entirely and we both get these dates.
All I can say is 'what if?'. I'm sorry for not doing what I think I didnt do. I just didnt know. You may have told me somehow, but I didnt get it. I didnt work at us, I know that and hate that. You have no idea what you mean to me. There has to be some wonder in your mind that 'what if he got it?'. You dont think I'm capable. I think I certainly am.
You loved me for who I am, just not how I recently was. 'Was' for sure. I dont want to start over with someone else. You know this, I want to start over with you.'