Have you read Michelle's books? If you haven't, you should. Where you don't want to listen to the people here because they are not experts, Michelle is.
Then Michelle should take my case probono.
Is she on these boards? Does she drop in as an alias? Have I given her the rubbed fur?
Yes I have read Michelle's books. How many people need to ask me that.
One of the things in Michelle books is this. When a person makes up their mind and say that are done. They are done.
Maybe that is my wife, and no amount of DB'ing will matter.
Do what works. Going dark with my wife is not the answer.
Being nice and humble.
Get treated like crap and still be involved in everyone of beckon calls. Then even if I do that. She'll find fault.
Please, thank you for the advice... I will consider it. I'm telling the story, and why I know it will not work. I know my wife like a book. I know how she acts about things. Never good enough.
