W pregnant with OM's child.......

[Sugar and Spice]

I took my wife's hand and told her I was here for her

Good for you, BC. Just because you don't agree with her choices, doesn't mean you can't give grace, and forgiveness, and support. Just don't RESCUE; instead, VALIDATE.

Never rescue an adulterer from the consequences of their adultery.

Puppy

((((BC)))) I am so very sorry. I am on the other side of this issue. My H has a pregnant OW. There is going to be a TON of emotions, no matter what your W chooses to do. Like Puppy says, give grace, forgiveness (it'll come in time) and support. Its really all you can do. I will keep an eye on your thread and try to be as much help as I can. (((((hugs))))) Suga