of course she doesn't want to file

she has no fall back plan if she files

you know

divorce sounds so "final"

why would she want to file when she can still play married too?

When I was a little girl I always pretended my barbies were nurses during vietnam
it was fun to play that but i never wanted to be a nurse unless it was during vietnam

clearly I couldn't be that but it didn't stop me from playing it

you can't let yourself be a peg in her game Frank
you are acting like my uncles poor gi joes with the torn off limbs who were the casualties.

filing is work frank
don't convince yourself it is anything different right now