Groundhog Day WAW #16

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Phil, The people here are not trying to bash you. They are trying to help you. People come here to learn from other that have gone before them. You have had some of the longest standing and most caring posters here reach out to you and yet you reject them and insult them and refuse to accept their advise and wisdom. Why is that?

Have you read Michelle's books? If you haven't, you should. Where you don't want to listen to the people here because they are not experts, Michelle is.

I know you think your situation is unique. But it's not. I know you think your W is crazier than anyone else's. But she's not. You cannot control your W but you can control yourself. You can control how you deal with your W and her parents. When you learn to do this, you will see how much easier this will be.

You absolutely must get yourself under control. If you continue as you are, you will end up having a heart attack or a nervous breakdown. Go to church or go away for a couple of days. Do whetever you need to do to get yourself centered because as you are right now, you are no help to your children, your family or yourself.