I sent her an e-mail telling her that she probably needs to pay the bill herself from now on since we won't be 'family' any more. I told her I'll miss her (she lives a ways away) and I appreciate how good she's been to me. I told her if she ever needed help she could call me.
Why in hell's bells would you do that to a "sweet, loving old lady"???
In my opinion it was a hateful thing to do to her because old people are typically very sensitive to family breakups. Do you know why that is? It's because THEY FREAKIN GET IT. They understand the loss and the far reaching effects that will be passed through each damned generation to come.
This latest move of yours seems real self-centered.
Examine your motivations closely, Frank. Preferably BEFORE you make anymore moves like that.
I think you are trying to get a reaction from your wife by trying to "appear" more detached than you actually are.
And don't tell me you did it for financial reasons either because $12.95 a month ain't gonna break you if you did it for a few more months.
