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Sooooooo, I say, no one should post to him


No quo just you and the others I have mentioned. Why should anybody listen to you? Are you a db God?

Here was some good advice. Everyone thinks they have the answers to someone else's problems when in fact they don't.

In my situation there are no answers. They only thing I can do is try and enforce and be firm, and continue to repeat what needs done. She isn't going to follow, but I need to keep her calm. I need to keep calm around her. I need the children to know that I am the sane one, and trust me they already know that.

Support me, don't bash me... Maybe lets try and say that LostPhil is trying to cope. LostPhil is seeking guidance. LostPhil is looking out for the best welfare of his children. LostPhil is handling his out of control wife the best way possible. He slips he falls, lets pick him up.