So then she kisses and hugs me and we do eventually ML but there's a lot of huffing going on. I don't mean heavy breathing I mean annoyed sighing... oh and yawning too.
I used to and still do feel so much pressure when my Hubby says ... "show me ".
I dunno how or why. It is hard to explain. I feel like I end up trying to hard and it feels , well quite frankly like Sh*t. I get overwhelmed. I get angry and it ends up bad. For me it is more fun when he lets me do what I want to. No pressure. I love when he takes me.... or when I take him. Or a mix of it. But if I have to "show him " for some reason I cant.
There have been a few exceptions; I let go and said to myself... F*ck the living daylights out of him and then maybe he will never say "show me" again.
Or "thats all you got?" I despise that one too.
So long story short... maybe you used a tone when you said show me? and thats where the huffing and puffing came in ?
Also the day she took you. What did you do for her to get her feeling so lovey towards you? Anything in particular? Or has been a few weeks of good emotional connection? Or simply a fluke?
I know for me personally. if my hubby is sweet,attentive and loving to me .. it gets me "going".
I think every Woman has her right mix of things that will make her feel special and motivated to "take charge".
Pay attention and then you can possibly get her to feel like initiating more.
