So the divorce agreement states that JA has the boys from 4-7:30pm. Guess who barges into the house at 3:30pm? He rang the bell and came in saying "HELLO! It's me!."
I said to him "it's only 3:30, you are not supposed to be here until 4pm."
He shrugs his shoulders and then sees S4 upstairs. S7 was still at school. He runs upstairs to greet S4. I went upstairs and said "I would appreciate it if you stuck to the divorce agreement and did not come until 4pm. Also, I am paying the bills here now so you no longer have the right to come in and walk around like you still live here."
JA: S4 invited me in and upstairs.
Me: He is 4 years old. It's not up to him.
JA: What's wrong with me showing up an half hour early? Your trying to keep the boys away from me.
Me: Stop twisting it around. I need you to stick to the agreement or else you start pushing your limitatons and a half hour becomes an hour.
JA: So, the boys want to see me.
I gave up arguing this as I figured I will have my L deal with it.
He then went outside with S4. About 15 minutes later I had to pick S7 up at the bus stop. I asked S4 if he wanted to go with me.
JA: I was planning on picking him up.
Me: No, I was. We are still on MY time.
JA: Well I want to go too.
Me: Fine, if you must but you better not take S7 away from me without giving me a chance to talk to him to find out how his first day of school was.
JA: Why would I do that? You don't know me at all.
Me: I am basing it on the way you have acted and treated me over the last 2 years.
I then got in the car. JA stayed in the background and I got to greet S7 coming off the bus.
When JA returned I asked him if he brought the tuition money that my father had layed out for S4's school. JA is supposed to reimburse him.
He said "Oh, your father can wait. He's rich, he doesn't need the money."
ME: My father is FAR from rich, but that is not even the point. It's your responsibility, not my father's to pay for S4's daycare.
JA: So why don't you pay it back to him for me since I just gave you a ton of money.
Me: That was money owed to me. It's not my place to pay it. You were ordered by the judge to reimburse us.
