I think that a girls day out is a great idea as well. I keep myself and the kids so busy these days that I have to schedule a couple evenings at home so chores get done and the kids can unwind. I know they are hurting too so I secretly think it's great when they say things that pull at W's heartstrings. She should know how her choices are affecting them and since she doesn't live with them that sort of thing is a good way for it to come out. I think it's healthy especially since when the kids say things it's so raw and innocent.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
