TY Lanzo, great post. I think I will stay at my parent for another couple of weeks to completely detach, then maybe do as you did and move back. however, I will move into the (internal) garage on a matress I think.

Will think more once another couple of weeks have passed. In all honesty, it's still very early days in my mind. Yes it started later January, but I've only moved out for 2 weeks now, plus a fews nights previous to that.

I do agree you need to be in the house have a better chance, but my w has sent solicitors letters threatening court action to get me out. Nice that my W speaks to her solicitor a lot to tell them i'd been gone a week when i recieved that letter.

I do feel she still has feelings for me sometimes, but I honestly don't know for sure. We are supposed to be booking Euro Disney together for probably october time, so maybe that might be a bit of a breakthrough, I don't know.

as you can probably get from the above, I'm still thinking to much of her, but i am more detached than I have been. no longer argue, heated debate is as bad as it gets, but i must stop that. She is very hard to keep from R or more D talk.

thanks again