hey blue, your post at LO's caught my eye, I am painting a mural in my son's room, you are prob an artist in some degree (or very brave, ;\) )

The thing with snooping, boy, am I cured to 100% after I found another huge horrible cover up from stbx (it involved the most lies ever told). I was so mad I wanted to confront him, but I realize, why? our R is dead, we all know he is the biggest liar in the world and it wouldnt' make me feel any better. That's what snooping does, kicks you in the gut and taunts you again.

Your W sounds like the same thing stbx's gf believed, that she was giving him what the witch of his W wasnt' giving him at home, how deluded her perception of her M was, guess they have to tell themselves all those fairy tales in order to run after the OP/mirage. I have long ago realized that I cannot save stbx from himself, so the less I know about him the better.

You sound strong in the Lord and I am glad for that, I thank God my little ones like church and talk about Jesus and we are able to pray together, your faith through this trial will be a light to your sons.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.