Rob, I know this is going to sound crazy, but is there any way at the 11th hour you can just say to your W what you have been saying here? That you don't want to be divorced and you want your family back together. Simple statement of the truth. Her behavior doesn't make her sound receptive, but hey you never know. Sometimes the divorce process takes on a life of its own and people just get used to responding a certain way. Just trying to think of ways to stop her in her tracks and have her make sure this is what she really wants for herself and D.I would imagine that deep down every Mother wants their child to grow up with their father unless he is abusive or something. It is just too bad you have tried so hard and she will not even admit the possibility you have changed. She is really cheating herself.
