Michelle- I am LMAO reading your post. It's like hearing my own voice coming back at me. Yes, I am happy with life apart from the 'M'. And you're absolutely right- I don't know if the aubergine is a happy part of his new life. That was me ASS-U-ME-ing. And it IS unrealistic for me to expect everything to be sorted just like that. *sigh* DB Coach said I need to be patient, so yes, deep breath, more patience. (Little blips allowed? )
So, last time there was an R talk we'd been friendship building for 6 months. Based on that, I have another 3 months to go before the next R talk. It's a good thing that H is rebuilding his life. Whatever else has happened, he's a good person and he deserves to be happy. (Just fingers crossed he decides I'd be his icing). ((((Michelle))))) Thank you- I needed that.
Julia- I think you're right too- it's a plateau or a mini-cave retreat. More patience. Check. I didn't bring up any naughty bits talk today when we met. It was generally just a normal conversation. I guess I didn't want H to think I was obsessed with naughty stuff. I'll try to think about other things to say. He liked the call and return/tension/epiphany thing though- made him laugh so thanks Julia! He also complained about his mother calling him late at night and expecting a long call. And his e-mail was detailed in describing that he was doing with his friends, so a bit more open. (((((Julia)))))
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